I Had A Sugar Daddy--My Personal Experience of Being A Sugar Baby
As the the world's largest sugar daddy dating website, Millionaire Match has a stunning database of rich and successful men, attracting thousands of single women to sign in every day. This website is designed for millionaire and their admirers to meet and date. But to be more precise, it is an online platform for girls who want to date a rich sugar daddy. Some women meet and date millionaires on this website in order to to become wives of them while others, especially college girls, look for sugar daddies here. Despite differeent goals, these women share some similar features. They want to change their poor economic conditions; they are under financial pressures of rent and tuition fee; they want to lead a lifestyle of the rich without working hard; or they simply want to get presents. Some people hold the opinion that women should become millionaires through their own efforts while the rest think there's no wrong being supported by sugar babies. It is a fair deal, though, with each side meeting their needs.
As an overseas student, I knew about this site by chance. Under the pressure of that time, I chose to find a sugar daddy for myself. Below is my real sugar baby experience.
1. Finding my sugar daddy online.
I had the worst time of my life before being a sugar baby. I heard from home that my father needed to get treatment in hospital more frequently because his stomach trouble is aggregating. Family financial circumstances were worse each day. My boyfriend broke up with me for my family conditions. My mother ringed me that there was not enough money at home to support my expenditure in America and she hoped that I could get a job and finish my study by myself. But where can I find a job in such a short time? Just when I was frustrated and annoyed, I though of Millionaire Match.
Because I didn't have a laptop. I used its app. After I signed in, I wrote my self-description carefully and uploaded several sexy pictures of me.
At first, I didn't know how to play this game; how to talk in the chatroom; how to take initiative to contact sugar daddies. To be honest, I'm not pretty. It was probably because of my Asian decent and student background, many daddies sent messages to me. I felt uncomportable with various men showing their money and status in front me. But with time went on, I got used to it and I knew how to chat with them and I started looking for sugar daddies proactively.
Most rich sugar daddies are concerned about their privacy. They don't want to reveal too much personal information. As a sugar baby, you shouldn't inquire too much about their real names, family situations and personal life, unless they tell you themselves. Daddies and babies will first say hello to each other. Then the daddy will ask," What kind of arrangement are you looking for?" Of course, you should answer that based on your real situations.
Receiving your reply, the daddy will tell you how many times you meet weekly, whether he need your company like a lover, or he simply gives you money each time after having sex. Some sugar daddies will take you to shop while others only have sex with you. Similarly, on the baby's side, some sugar babies wish to build up close relationship with the daddy while some only want money. Both sides will settle the price at the beginning. When they get more familiar with each other, sugar babies usually receive more than expected. This is determined by sugar daddies and the service provided by sugar babies. In addition, you'll reach agreement on receiving payment per month or per time of service, wearing condom or not, meeting up at public places or only in bed.
This looks like a deal. There are various kind of people on the internet. They put their demands in the most straightforward way. But this is good in avoiding future disputes. Based on my own experience, some daddies will give you several hundred dollars per month, some can give you over ten thousands per month. Some don't have sex with you. They just need your company. But there are also daddies having requests that I can't accept. So you'd better negotiate the rules beforehand.
2. My first date with a sugar daddy
After screening for a few days, I received an invitation for twelve thousand dollars per month. This man looked like in his forties, with good shape. He was born in France and grew up in America. He took me to an upscale restaurant for the first meet up. I spent a whole afternoon in making up myself. At first, I was very nervous. But he was nice and easy-going, which made me relax very soon. I didn't order by myself. He ordered me a steak for hundreds of dollars. During the dinner, he asked me where I came from and had me teach him how to say "hello" in my language. He also asked me why I chose to be a sugar baby. I was a little embarrassed to tell him that I had to pay for my expensive tuition and rent. He praised ma as a clever girl who knew what to do and what I wanted. A few hours later, my feeling of unfamiliarness disappeared. Although he was still strange to me and I didn't even know his name, I did not decline when he held my waist like a couple. I got in his car and went to his house with him. I guess you know what happed next.
3. Being together with my America sugar daddy for over one year
After we had sex, this sugar daddy cared about me very much. He often called me to aske about my life, like a real boyfriend. He mentioned that he missed me and wanted to develop relationship with me. Maybe he really liked me. With time went on, I was accustomed to this kind of life. I no longer had to worry abou money. I began to purchase things I could never afford before and I could do things I never thought of doing. This made me feel awesome. I finally understand why so many people like money. It was just I sometimes felt all this seemed to be unreal and I had worries about how long this kind of relationship could last.
With time passing by, we were more and more familiar with each other, we talked about everything from art, music, to painting. Because of the small age gap, I sometimes felt I was going out with him. He had no feeling of boredom towards me. Instead, we met more and more frequently and he gave me more change. He even took me to shop and travel very often. I didn't squander the money. I saved up and I had nearly one hundred and fifty thousand dollars at last, which was a good amount for a girl at college.
4. It was time to split.
Time flies. Graduation was coming. Since y mother mas old and my father needed someone to take after him, I didn't plan to stay in America. I told my america sugar daddy that I hope to end our relationship and I told him the reason. He was very gentleman. I told him that I was very grateful for his care for me during the past year and if he needed another date, I wouldn't charge. He didn't ask me out at last. Three days later, I received a check of twenty thousand dollars. He called me that it was for the gratitude of my company and if possible, he wished to travel to my country and visit me.
Back to my own country, I felt everything was friendly. I got a job in a bank and take care of my father after work. No sugar daddies here and I'm no longer a sugar baby. Those things in America were like a dream. I deleted my profile on Millionaire Match. I don't need sugar daddies any more. But I still think of my first and my only sugar daddy from time to time.